The real reason you keep chasing for more
More achievements, more credentials, more success... but it never feels like enough
There’s a voice that exists within you.
The higher you rise, the louder it gets.
No, it doesn’t disappear with success—it evolves.
The more you grow, the more money you make, the more you take on bigger opportunities, the more you push past your comfort zone… the more THIS shows up.
Even the most accomplished people battle with this. (Yes, even your role models!)
And watch out! It’s really sneaky…
It disguises itself as logic, convincing you that you’re just being “smart” or “strategic” when really… you’ve just committed another act of self sabotage!
So how do you know if it’s affecting you?
Have you ever caught yourself thinking…
"Once I hit this next milestone, then I’ll finally feel like I’ve made it.”
“If I had more ______, then people would take me more seriously.”
“Everyone else seems so much more confident and accomplished… Do I really belong here?”
"What if people find out I’m not as ______ as they think I am?"
Ugh, there goes that voice again. Damn you, Imposter Syndrome!
No matter how much you achieve, no matter how many milestones you hit, that critical voice of Imposter Syndrome just doesn’t go away.
Has that critical voice been loud for you lately?
It has for me.
It somehow makes me forget, diminish, and overlook my own experiences. It kept telling me that they weren’t “good enough” compared to others.
I didn’t feel qualified enough to call myself a coach, so I got 2 different coaching certifications. How much money and time I’ve spent could’ve gotten me a degree in grad school, but even after I passed those certifications with flying colors, I still didn’t feel “good enough.”
So I thought, “Why not actually go to grad school and get a Master's?” Then, those letters after my name would prove to others that I am an expert.
…and I was SO GLAD I got rejected!!
…because that could’ve been 5-6 figures of tuition over 2-3 years of schooling, and 2-3 more years of logging nearly 5000 hours of hands on experience and passing an exam that requires continued education every 2 years to maintain that license.
…and I ended up pivoting from that niche anyways!
Nope, that wasn’t going to give me the confidence I was seeking.
Yup, that would’ve been one long and expensive procrastination tactic.
For sure, a degree will never be enough if you don’t believe in yourself.
Did you know that…
Steve Jobs never earned a degree in computer engineering or design. He forged his own path into the tech world by obsessively studying innovation, experimenting fearlessly, and trusting his instincts. Without formal training, without corporate backing, and without following the traditional path, he built one of the most iconic companies in history and redefined the way we use technology.
Oprah Winfrey never had formal training in journalism or business. She blazed her own trail into media by mastering the art of storytelling, connecting deeply with people, and turning raw authenticity into a superpower. Without a prestigious background, without industry approval, and without waiting for someone to open doors for her, she became one of the most influential media moguls of all time.
Steven Spielberg was rejected from film school multiple times and never received a formal film education. He carved his own way into the industry by relentlessly pursuing hands on experience and observing professional directors in action. Without a degree, without permission, and without waiting to be qualified, he became one of the most legendary directors of all time.
Jane Austen never had a formal education in literature or writing. She created her own opportunities in the literary world by sharpening her craft through keen social observation, relentless practice, and an unshakable belief in her voice. Without a university degree, without the endorsement of literary elites, and without the privileges afforded to male writers of her time, she became a literary icon, shaping the course of fiction for generations to come and proving that talent and persistence will always outshine credentials.
Tony Robbins never earned a degree in psychology or coaching. He paved his own way into the personal development world by immersing himself in human behavior, continuously learning from mentors, and actually helping people change their lives. Without credentials, without a traditional education, and without waiting to be certified, he became one of the most well known and sought after life strategists in the world.
As an entrepreneur, your certifications don’t matter as much compared to whether or not you can answer this question: “Can you help me with this problem?!”
So why do you still feel like a fraud?
Because deep down, it’s not about needing more knowledge, credentials, experience, or resources.
It’s about not believing that what you already have is enough.
You think that if you just have more, you’ll finally feel more confident or good enough.
But here’s the truth: Confidence and self worth don’t come from knowing or having more—it comes from showing up, despite the fears and doubt.
The more you wait to feel ready, the more you reinforce the belief that you feel like you’re not.
The hidden reasons behind your lack of confidence
The inner Disruptor Debilitating Imposter Syndrome doesn’t just make you question your worth. It makes you chase a version of success where you’ll never feel satisfied.
You think you’re unqualified, only because you’re measuring yourself against an impossible standard—one where you’ll never feel good enough.
No matter what you accomplish, your brain moves the goalpost.
No matter how much you do, it doesn’t feel like enough.
No matter how much proof you have, you still feel like you’re not “there” yet.
So you stay on the sidelines, waiting for the moment when you finally feel like an expert—when in reality, that moment will only come once you decide to own your expertise, as you are right now.
This is why it doesn’t matter how many wins, certifications, or clients you get—if you don’t change the way you measure your own success, you’ll always feel behind.
Hey, you probably don’t think of yourself as “stuck.”
All that learning, improving, and gaining experience feels like progress.
But if you’re being honest, how much of that is just a… stalling tactic?
If you’ve been:
Chasing credentials—believing that one more certification, degree, or course will finally make you "legit”
Downplaying your expertise—acting like what you know is “obvious” or “nothing special” when it doesn’t come naturally to others
Dismissing your wins—focusing on what you haven’t done yet or crediting luck, timing, or other people instead of owning your achievements and recognizing your progress
Avoiding feedback—delaying sharing your work because you’re afraid of being “found out” or exposed as not good enough
Hiding in the background—holding back or running away from opportunities because you don’t feel “qualified” yet…
You’re not just being cautious. You’re keeping yourself invisible. These are holding you back from stepping into your full potential.
No, imposter syndrome isn’t proof that you’re not good enough. The only thing it’s proving is that you have avoided putting yourself out there.
You’re not actually missing more qualifications. You’re just scared that if you try and fail, it will confirm your worst fears about yourself.
But the real failure is staying stuck, second guessing, and holding yourself back while others with less experience move forward simply because they’re willing to try.
The longer you wait to feel ready, the more opportunities pass you by.
Imagine where you’d be right now if you had trusted yourself sooner. How many missed opportunities, ideas left unshared, or potential clients never reached—all because you believed you weren’t “ready” or “good enough”?
The hidden mental blockers you need to toss out
Overcoming imposter syndrome isn’t about gathering more proof. Sure, you could make a list of accomplishments to boost your confidence for a moment. But would that truly make you feel ready to put yourself out there?
Sounds great, but probably not.
I’ve done it. I’ve asked clients to do it. And no, that wasn’t the transformative factor.
THIS IS… learning how to take action without needing permission, external validation, or absolute certainty. Confidence comes from doing it messy, doing it scared, and doing it no matter what.
Here are the 3 things to stop holding onto:
Stop using “I’m not ready” as an excuse – Readiness isn’t a real benchmark. It’s just a feeling, and feelings are unreliable. Instead, set a clear, objective milestone that cannot be tied to self doubt. Choose one small, doable action and make that your launching point. Not when you feel ready. Not when everything is perfect. But now.
Stop waiting for permission – No one is going to tap you on the shoulder and declare, “Congrats, you’re officially qualified!” Even if you do earn a certification or reach a milestone, you still have to claim and own your expertise. The only permission you need is your own.
Stop telling yourself you’re not good enough – Your self talk matters. The more you repeat this, the more you convince yourself it’s true… and without a doubt, your brain will find ways to prove it. Instead, shift your focus to where you are enough and start acting from that place. There are people with less experience, fewer skills, and half your knowledge already doing what you’re hesitating to do. So why not you?
The only way to feel ready is to start before you do. Competence comes from experience, from action, and from gathering results. The more you show up, the more confidence and self worth you create for yourself.
Success won’t come from feeling like an expert.
It comes from showing up as one, just as you are.
You don’t need another certification to be qualified.
You don’t need external validation to be credible.
You don’t need more proof to start owning your expertise.
You need more proof of action!
Because confidence, recognition, and success don’t come from waiting until you feel ready.
They become yours when you face your fears and show up anyways.
Stop waiting. Stop hiding. Stop believing the lie that you have to be more before you can do more.
You already have everything you need.
Imagine where you’d be a year from now. You could be further along than you ever imagined—or still sitting in the same spot, doubting yourself and what was possible.
What decides your outcome is… whether you choose to show up now.
I’m in this with you.
Next week, I’ll be announcing a real time, public experiment—showing you how I apply the “Less but Better” philosophies to my work and how I intentionally leverage the inner Disruptors as guideposts rather than pitfalls. (This experiment was a byproduct of me facing Debilitating Imposter Syndrome!)
You’ll get to watch it all unfold, learn from the inside out, and hey, you could even join me on the journey if it speaks to you. Stay tuned!!
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I love this! I put this away for now but I am sure it's waiting around the corner to come back.